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Russian Girls Are Looking for You!

Sign up to any Russian dating site and it's quite likely that you'll be contacted by dozens of Russian girls looking for you. Is this normal? Is it a good thing? Is that hot Russian bride for real?

I'll confirm that most men see the same thing on a lot of mail order bride websites. Sign up and you'll be contacted by dozens of pretty Russian girls. They'll be queuing up to be your loving, devoted bride! This is normally the opposite to dating sites in your own country. Often the man has to do the chasing here. Unless you're a hunky guy with Brad Pitt looks and the wallet of a Wall Street banker of course. But even if this is the case, you may still have to look for ladies to contact. Most personals sites allow women to sign up for free, and it's the men who end up having to pay to be able to contact them.

In general my experience has been that you'll often get more admirers on sites that you have to pay in order to send a lady an email or request her contact details. This is a no brainer really - the more emails you get from pretty girls the more likely you are to spend money writing a letter back to them.

Now if you sign up to a flat rate fee site like Russian Euro or Ukraine Date, then you'll generally get less interest shown in you. Please believe me when I say that this is a good thing! It means the ladies are much more genuine. If you get an admirer on a site like this then the interest can be more genuine. Of course, the golden rule is also to be a little suspicious of girls who are looking for men instead of waiting for them to make first contact. See below for an example of a Russian girl who could well be looking for a scam victim.

Russian Girls Looking for You to be Their Next Scam Victim!

Here's the sort of email that you might get from a lady on a dating service such as Russian Euro. This is the sort of lady that I like to avoid - there are too many red flags which make me think she's a scammer. See if you agree with my points. For privacy reasons, I have changed the names, dates and locations specified in the email.

Subject: hi
Date: 02-Mar-2011 ( 20 hours ago )
Hello, my name is Luba, 24 years old, and an ordinary girl from Kiev, Ukraine,

I just, kind, gentle, compassionate.

You are so handsome, I love you,

my email is luba227272@yahoo.com

I look forward to receiving your mail.

What gives me red flags about this girl? Well first of all she is very young, and well below my minimum age specification. Professing to fall in love in the first email is a big red flag for me. If you don't get girls mobbing you in your own town, why should it be any different online?

Also including an email address is suspicious. She's also from Ukraine, whereas I specified I was looking for a girl from Belarus.

Finally, not shown in the email is that fact that her profile lists her occupation as Self Employed. Here's a good tip - it's often best to stick to the ladies with full time jobs - office ladies are a good choice. Self employed could mean anything from running a small shop to being a full time Russian dating site scam girl!

What else is suspicious? Well I won't reproduce them here, but the girl's photos show she is very attractive. I know you can't judge a book by it's cover, but she looks a bit of a game player to me. She also says she is looking for a man from age 24 to 65. Wow, a big red flag here. Yes there is a man shortage in Eastern Europe, but if a good looking girl can't find a man in Russia, then there's obviously something wrong with her.

Finally, the girl hasn't filled in any of the she's looking for fields, apart from the fact that she wants a man in the 26 to 65 age range. Women who haven't thought at all about what they want are either scammer or probably not serious about finding love. Remember that ladies can usually sign up for free, so they've not shown much commitment by signing up to the site.

So there you have it. There are some very nice ladies on Russian Euro and the other Russian dating sites. But there are also many suspicious characters. Most of them have a profile just like I've described. Don't write them off by any means, but just be a lot more wary of them. Remember that one red flag isn't a deal breaker in itself.

So there you go. Sign up to a Russian dating site and you need to be a little suspicious of Russian girls looking for you. It's usually better to initiate contact with a girl you like the look of. But don't discount girls who are looking for men to contact - it can mean that they're much more serious about finding love online.

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